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Wednesday, 17 August 2016
Pastor Adeboye Reacts: My Message Not For Everybody

Pastor Adeboye Reacts: My Message Not For Everybody

 
Following the criticisms that greeted one of his sermons at the yearly convention of Redeem Church, the respected General Overseer, Pastor Enoch Adeboye, has said his messages are not for everyone.

The social media was awash a couple of weeks ago on the sermon of Adeboye to the youth members of the church at Redemption Camp where the message bordered on the choice of marriage partners.
The widely circulated footage had shown Adeboye telling the men not to marry a woman who could not cook or pray seriously about the issues of life. 
In the same video, he warned the spinsters not to marry a man who had no job or who could not show concrete evidence of his means of livelihood.

The world renowned preacher on his Facebook page on Tuesday, in his reaction to the criticisms, said his messages were not for everybody.

Baba Adeboye said, “My message are not for everybody. So, I plead with you, ask God to speak to you specifically.”
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Tuesday, 16 August 2016
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MFM Pastor, Olukoya, lists 3 Ways to identify a fake pastor



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Mountain of Fire and Miracle Ministries Church fondly called MFM was founded by Daniel Kolawole Olukoya in his living room during a prayer meeting in 1989. MFM is known and could be described as a “do-it-yourself gospel ministry, where your hands are trained to wage spiritual war and your fingers to do the battle.”


 The Militant tone is reflected throughout the teachings of MFM, where it calls upon members to become aggressive Christians and some of the groups founded by MFM are wont to call on members to become aggressive Christians, which even reflects in their names.
The Prayer Warriors, the Territorial Intercessors and God’s Violent Army. All women are required to wear skirts and head covers in MFM. Prayers tend to be repetitious of faith-based claims, spiritual decrees and commanding prayers, often taken directly from the scriptures and proclaim that safety lies with Jesus Christ. This same church, MFM, is known worldwide for opposing witchcraft, and is known in the North America and the United Kingdom for its stand on the evil practice.

Last week, at the MFM headquarters along, Lagos-Ibadan Expressway, Ogun State, the General Overseer in a sermon entitled: “Inside the Cage of Lying Prophet “revealed some key secrets to know a fake Prophet. He said that many fake Prophets were in the street, on the television and on radio today. When you see someone from nowhere or someone just appears from nowhere, when you can’t identify the church where he got born again and you cannot even trace his roots to any church, then you should be very, very careful to associate with such a “man of God.”

Dr. Olukoya said, the major reason these people have large followers is the inability of people to pray.  He said in the end of the world, according to Mathew 24 verse 11, “And many false prophets will arise and shall deceive many, while the verse 24 of the same chapter says, “For there shall arise false Christians, and false prophets, who shall show great signs and wonders. In so much that, if it were possible, they shall deceive the very elect.” Dr. Olukoya said, many of these things were now happening in Nigeria, and many signs and wonders we see in Nigeria now are sings of disobedience. G.O as he is fondly called went further to back his points with Ezekiel 14 verse 9 which says, “And if the prophet be deceived when he hath spoken a thing, I, the Lord, has deceived that prophet, and I will stretch out my hand upon him, and will destroy him from the midst of the people of Israel .”

WHO IS A GOOD PROPHET
This is one of the key notes of the sermon. He said that a prophet is a man who loves God. A prophet is the oracle of God. “They are to correct us.” They are the mouth piece of God. They always see in the spirit. Prophets are the spokesmen of God. They are role models. They have a very close relationship with God. Not a prophet who boasts of having many wives.
The same fake prophets are the same sleeping in hotel with the wives of church members. Dr. Olukoya revealed that witch doctors are now being rebranded to lead churches. These men are always in suits and they see visions. They speak strange languages that is very uncommon and they called it “Speaking in Tongue.” He buttressed his points with an illustration of how a girl who has been begging  God for a child went to one of the fake prophets fear assistance. The man asked her to sleep with him in a cemetery and the lady slept with him on a grave.
But the woman saw a padlock in his hand when she was having sex with him, and the padlock was locked during the ejaculation and since then, the woman womb was blocked. Another fake prophet told  someone to come to Nigeria, that he must have sex with her before she could prosper. Dr. Olukoya then asked the  congregation that how could a man ask his church members to deposit water in bottles in the church for seven days?
Pastors now ask member to carry snake(s) in the church and where was it written that Christians must wear yellow garment to church in the Bible? Where was it written that you must incise your body? Where was it written in the Bible that Pastors must prepare herbal concoctions and ask church members to drink?
The great man of God (Dr. Olukoya) reiterated that if you saw anybody who could trace his roots or you cannot trace his roots to any spiritually reputable church, be sure he is a false prophet. These people, (fake Prophets) now preach the loves of God rather than go deeply and preach to their members the reality of hell fire.
 
Monday, 4 July 2016
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3 Reasons Why the Post-UTME Ban is Bad for the Educational system in our country.

Richard Agu: 3 Reasons Why the Post-UTME Ban is Bad For the Nigerian Educational System







dreamstime_l_46738066As I watched my parents narrate their old-school education experience, I couldn’t hide my admiration. What was I admiring from their school experience? It is simply the values placed on reading habits, sincerity, integrity and hard work which engender academic excellence.

In the third week of June 2016, I went to a business café to print a document; a young lady in her early 30’s came in with her two children. The young lady was looking for a person that will assist her to carry-out her children’s school assignments.

 he assignment involved simply using a cardboard paper to construct a laptop computer; using a ply wood to draw sol-fa notes scale in ascending and descending order; and summarising the high points of the recommended novel.

Initially, I felt, maybe she is an illiterate – which is pardonable. But she isn’t. Even if she is; I felt she would be looking for a person to teach her children how to carry-out the assignments. On the contrary, she wasn’t; she was eager to carry her children home and paid for the cost of the assignments.

While leaving the café, I felt so sorry for the little children whose mother will go to any length to enroll them in West Africa Senior Secondary Certificate Examination (WASSCE), West Africa Examination Council (WAEC), National Examination Council (NECO) and Joint Admission and Matriculation Board (JAMB) special centres for examination malpractice to gain unmerited academic excellence.


It is against this kind of anomaly that Post Unified Tertiary Matriculation Examination (Post-UTME) was introduced. Its major objective is to serve as a platform where Nigerian tertiary institutions will conduct an internal examination for prospective students before admission purpose, since the credibility of JAMB was given vote of no confidence.

The news of the Federal Government ban on Post-UTME was somehow not taken seriously by the public. This has prompted the Minister of Education, Malam Adamu Adamu to reiterate the Federal Government ban on Post-UTME recently.

 He said “the ban is with immediate effect and under no circumstance should any institution violate the directive. Those who have already advertised for the conduct of the Post-UTME under any guise should stop the exercise immediately. If any tertiary institution has already conducted Post-UTME, such an exercise stands annulled and money taken from candidates must be refunded immediately”

He further said that ‘for the avoidance of doubt, any educational institution’ after secondary education is regarded as a tertiary institution. Therefore, all tertiary institutions, by whatever name it is called, after secondary school, must be subjected to admission through JAMB.

With the ban of Post-UTME by the Federal Government, is it a step backward in the Nigerian education system?

Post UTME filters the chaff from the wheat
A Professor in one of the tertiary institutions in the East once confided in me that the Post-UTME is one of the best things that have ever happened to the Nigerian education system.

 

Prior to the introduction of Post UTME, according to the Professor, a significant proportion of the students admitted into the institution of higher learning could not make or write a simple sentence; their handwritings were so poor that it took forever to make a script; and their examination scores were equally very poor.

However, he noticed a great improvement as Post-UTME was introduced. The Professor was so excited that students can brainstorm during lectures, ask questions and share ideas, as well as make outstanding grades in course and research works.

 

This aptly shows that Post UTME serves as a filter, selecting the chaff from the wheat and bringing in the qualified best brains into the institutions of higher learning for further intellectual development and empowerment.

Post-UTME offers a level competing ground for rich and poor kids
Post-UTME offers equal opportunity for rich and poor kids to scramble for the limited admission quota of the various tertiary institutions in Nigeri

 

Equal opportunity! I know the poor kids will be puzzled by my assertion. They will argue that the rich kids bribe their way into the admission list. Yeah, it is indisputable. But have the poor kids considered using the arsenals in their armories/

Arsenals such as studying diligently, and scoring above the cut off marks. Achieve this and then you will see that Post-UTME offers an excellent platform for the “haves” and “have not''

 

Post-UTME encourages old-school values
What are these old school values that the new school students have thrown to the wind? They are simply cultivating a reading habit, hard work and integrity. Post UTME encourages these values which are triggers of academic excellence.

A serious minded student will not hesitate to imbibe a reading habit to effectively cover his/her syllabus and work extremely hard to prepare for WASSCE, NECO, JAMB and P-UTME.

 

Such student will definitely shun examination malpractice because his/her hard work has effectively enhances his/her capacity to achieve excellence in any examination.

This is Nigeria. Of course I am aware. There is inherent corruption in the administration of Post-UTME in most tertiary institution in Nigeria. Like the Minister said that there was no empirical evidence to show that the inception of Post-UTME, universities has been having better students, adding that students were being expelled annually for low performance, even as they gained admission through Post-UTME.

 

There is no wisdom in killing a fly with a sledge hammer.


Rather than banning Post-UTME, effort should be channel towards dealing squarely with its inherent corruption.
This is because Post-UTME is a veritable platform for encouraging students’ reading culture, hard work and academic excellence.



Hence Post-UTME ban is certainly a step backward to our battered education system.

 

Thursday, 9 June 2016
Check Out the Secret dope Airplane Bedrooms Where Flight Crews Sleep

Check Out the Secret dope Airplane Bedrooms Where Flight Crews Sleep

Ever wondered what happens when a flight attendants disappear on long flights and reappear refreshed?? Well seek no further we have the answers right here



Taking a flight from one side of the world to the other can be a tiring experience for a traveler, but think about what it must be like for the flight attendants and pilots, who are on-call—and often on their feet—throughout the duration of the trip. They’ve got to get some downtime, too, but where do they rest?
According to INSIDER, there are tiny bedroom compartments hidden above many first class cabins, which are accessible via a secret staircase, usually behind the cockpit (though some are accessible at the rear of the plane). The bedrooms are for the use of the flight crew only and are available on most airplanes that are built for long-haul flights, such as the Boeing 777 and 787 Dreamliner, and the Airbus A380.

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Flight attendants can take a break and catch a few winks in these designated sleeping areas, which typically feature six to 10 beds with pillows and blankets in a variety of bunks or side-by-side beds, which are divided by privacy curtains. Each bunk is about six feet long and 2.5 feet wide, which isn’t exactly what you’d call “spacious.” However, some airlines offer pajamas and entertainment centers for some added relaxation. Boeing 777 pilots might have some of the best accommodations: They have their own overhead sleeping compartments with two roomy beds, two business-class seats, and more than enough room for a closet, sink, or private lavatory, depending on the airline.
Tuesday, 7 June 2016
"We will not be a party to exploitation"-RCCG reacts to viral 'Sacrificial Giving' form

"We will not be a party to exploitation"-RCCG reacts to viral 'Sacrificial Giving' form


Yesterday, the 'Sacrificial' Church form trended on Social Media.

It is apparently a “Sacrificial Giving Form” given out by the Pastor-in-Charge of Region 14 of The Redeemed Christian Church of God to church members.



The form of course sparked controversy on social media as people couldn't wrap their minds around the rationale behind the huge sums being requested.

At the heels the controversy, the Church headquarters has released a statement addressing the issue. In the statement, they say one of the Pastors in Charge of the Parish acted without approval, and emphatically state that RCCG will not be a party to 'undue and unnecessary exploitation".

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Thursday, 2 June 2016
Tuesday, 31 May 2016
Monday, 30 May 2016
Man Narrates How Retired Chief Of Naval Staff, Wife & His Boys Almost Took His Life... (It’s So Messy)

Man Narrates How Retired Chief Of Naval Staff, Wife & His Boys Almost Took His Life... (It’s So Messy)


His name is Monsodi Lawrence. I am lost for words.

Precisely on the 4th of April 2016, the wife of former Chief of Naval Staff, Mrs Usman Oyibe Jibrin  threatened to send her stooges after me to deal with me, these threats were issued after I put a call to her concerning my piece of land, with  the description: Plot no. 96 of about 1500m2 at Gbazango Extension scheme Kubwa , which she and her husband Admiral  Usman Oyibe Jibrin asked their boys to fence without my knowledge & permission.

Immediately after her threats one naval officer Ali Abdulsallam started sending me empty text messages & every attempt to get him to pick my calls failed. Later on one Dauda called me & threatened that he will get me that night.  On the 8th April 2016 at about 1pm I received a call from my supervisor that some officers who refused to divulge their identity has stopped work at my site & threatened to hand cuff workers & carry them away. Coincidentally the number my supervisor sent turned out to be the phone number of naval officer Ali Abdulsallam who's being sending me empty text messages, Ali Abdulsallam kept insisting that I should come to the site with my land  documents despite my asking that we meet before a relevant authority, he kept insisting I come to the property with my document .


I eventually agreed to meet with them at the site after I had laid an official complaint  at Kubwa divisional police station & police  patrol team dispatched to accompany me to the site & invite  them to the station. After inspector Sunday heard both parties he said we should all wait for his superior  officer , while we were waiting I remember that my car was unlock & that I had some valuable documents, i left to be sure that they were still intact, as soon as I started  approaching my car, I noticed naval officer Okon JJ .whispering  something into the ear of an Armed naval officer , who started  closing in on me, he then cut up with me while  I was seated in my car & because the car parked at my right hand side was too close to mine he couldn't come into the car.

With his gun pointed at me he commanded me to drive out gently or else he'll shoot me. As soon as I reversed the car he started shooting at me at random & in that panic stricken state I drove off but couldn't make a good distance because the bullets had deflated my front right tire, & damaged my car engine.

I was dragged out of my car by  some plain clothes naval men who started beating me & later on the detailed personnel to retired chief of naval staff Jibril Usman Oyibe Jibrin Moses Kembi, officer Ali Abdulsallam , Okon JJ & their Lawyer joined them in beating me & subsequently forced me into their Lawyer's car. However at the entrance of their staff quarters, while contemplating on what to do to me a call came in from the area commander via my supervisor's phone & commanded to bring me back to the station.

At this point the detailed personnel to retired chief of naval staff, Moses Kembi asked the  gun man to alight  & enter into their quarters & remain there. With the other naval offices dispersed, the detailed personnel, Moses Kembil & the acclaimed lawyer then took me back to the police station. At the station, the acclaimed  lawyer was obtained under caution  but Moses Kembi refused to give statement to the police on the ground that he was a naval officer  & was detained by the police.

After statements were obtained from me & my car towed to the station,  looking at my condition, I was asked by the police to go to the hospital for treatment. In spite of the pain incurred from the beating and the trauma of the gun shots, I couldn't make it to hospital until the next day. Presently I am receiving treatment at the federal medical centre jabi Abuja.

The Police released their lawyer after taking his statement, however the Detailed personnel to the former chief of naval staff Usman Oyibe Jibrin, Moses kenbi refuse to give his statement to the police & was detained. I later found out that Moses Kembi was no longer in their custody, when and who he was released to I can not tell. Consequent to the petition written by my lawyer to the present naval chief of staff, their Provost on the 14th April 2016 sent a naval officer  to Area command Kubwa to ascertain The genuineness of our allegation . The police is yet to invite the former chief of naval staff and his wife, naval officer Ali Abdulsallam ,naval officer  Okon JJ and Moses Kembi is yet to produce the gunman. From the attitude of the police I perceive conspiracy, which explains why they have halt investigation and are desperately urging me to meet  with Jibrrin''s Lawyer to discuss the settlement of my bullet ridden car. It is obvious that they are determined on destroying available evidence. I suspect that the police has been induce to make this case less grievous . Simply put Sir the  police is subtly  coerceing me to settle.

It will interest every one to know that after I discovered the encroachment on my property, I wrote a complaint to the director Development Control, Abuja Metropolitan Management Council, on 16th of October 2915,  intimating them of the trespass.

Consequently , the afore described property was marked by the Kubwa District Office  and notice served on same day being 18th of November 2015 . in the course of my private investigation Officer Okon JJ, who happen to be the manager of the Jibrrins hotel situate at Gbazango Kubwa confirmed the receipt of the notice served by Kubwa District Office demanding for the Jubrins tittle documents. And I asked him why they didn't respond Okon JJ could not give any coherent reason for the contempt. Six days after the murder/abduction failed being  the 14th of April 2016, the District Office again marked for demolition and a second notice served still demanding for their tittle documents. It will interest everyone to know that rather than ignoring the notice as usual which would have been more honorable, their Lawyer Ikemefuna Mojume through a means which he only can tell, got hold of the copy of the petition I wrote to EFCC informing the authority of my suspicion (that I fear that my original land papers entittling Plot no. 96 of about 1500m2 at Gbazango Extension Scheme Kubwa to me has been cloned,  imploying the commission to invite the Jibrrins and one Dauda to explain their source and submit their land papers to enable the commission send both our documents to the relevant authority for authentication).

This barrister Ikemefuna Mojume pride stunningly brought out before my lawyer,my  humble self and two others. Worthy of note is that as at this time my petition was yet to be approved by the EFCC. Barrister Ikemefuna Mojume tauntingly told my lawyer to advice me to quickly accept whatever  they decide to offer me or else it will be big man talk to big man and the matter will be swept under the carpet, that my pitching against his team is like an ant challenging an elephant to a fight.

Although I have received my life back in a figure through Gods intervention yet I and every member of my household are daily living in fears not knowing what their next move against me will be. I am using this medium to ask all that reads this article to join me to  pray the  Police to do their duty without fear or favour. Police protection is one  of my human rights among others.
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How To Use Fear To Your Advantage

Happy New Week Socialville fam,oh, happy democracy days in arrears too .

 



Going through most articles and commentary online as Nigeria marked its democracy day yesterday ,I found out that most Nigerians are now living in fear although most people will deny this but the reason for this is not far fetched; The reality of the crumbling economy is on us and both individuals and private companies can feel the impact.This is indeed frightening as people are daily loosing there jobs and price hikes in almost every commodity.

So this got me doing some soul searching and in return brought about this article.

 First off,Fear is defined as “a distressing emotion aroused by a threat, whether the threat is real or imagined.”
Fear in itself is not completely a bad thing,but this only depends on how you handle it, so permit me to share a few tips on how to use fear to your advantage;

1. Turn your fear into your motivation .

This has really helped me a lot. At each point in my life when I become really terrified of a certain thing I turn it around and make it a point of motivation. For instance, at a point in my life I was terrified of ever having to look for a job,so I learnt all the skills that I could in other to be my own boss and today I'm better for it.

2.Connect the feeling of fear with success. 

Fear is the prelude to potentially great things. Think about any successful moments in your life and they were probably all preceded by fear—getting the big promotion, Passing your waec/jamb, landing the contract etc. When you find you’re resisting something that you know could be good for your life, you know you’re on the right track.
Once you spot fear in any of its forms,  

3. Work out the worst-case scenario in your head. Chances are if the Investor or interviewer rejects you, you won’t lose a limb or die. The only thing worse than the worst-case scenario is no action at all. Make the call, send the email, approach the person, and don’t wait. Time is not your friend. 

4. Use the physical reaction that fear induces. When we feel fear, even though we’re not running for our lives, we still feel a degree of adrenaline—increased heart rate, tensing in the muscles, sharpened senses—the exact opposite of being relaxed and comfortable. Now is the time to act. 
Be it a phone call, an email, or approaching someone in person, once you dive in and get into action mode, the outcome is never really as bad as the scenario we’ve created in our heads. And then we wonder why we waited so long to do such a simple thing! 

Practicing the behavior of controlling fear with action will begin to make you stronger and more confident in asking for—and getting—what you want to succeed.

Feel free to share how you've been able to overcome your fear in the comment box below.

Have a great week ahead and don't forget to share this article among your social circles.
 
Wednesday, 27 April 2016
WATCH the Hilarious Answers Nigerians gave to the Question “Can You Slap Your Mum for $20 Million?”

WATCH the Hilarious Answers Nigerians gave to the Question “Can You Slap Your Mum for $20 Million?”

BattaBox’ Odunayo gets to ask people in Lagos if they are willing to slap their mothers for 20 Million Dollars ($20,000,000).
Some of the replies are so hilarious! One guy said, “I won’t need to tell my mum, she would offer up herself as a living sacrifice, then we would keep celebrating that day as Mother slapping Day”.

Watch the video here!
Wednesday, 13 April 2016
Monday, 11 April 2016
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Emmanuel Ikubese talks about his Gigolo role in Mo Abudu's Fifty



Former Mr. Nigeria, Emmanuel Ikubese, one of the lead actors in FIFTY, the top grossing movie in Nigeria today recently had an interview with with Encomium and talked about his much talked about role in the movie, FIFTY, see excerpts below:
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You acted in FIFTY as a gigolo, you were quite raw in the movie?
FIFTY was an amazing project. I am proud to be part of it. I see acting as an act, you need to go all in to prove whatever you want to prove. That is why Hollywood is where it is today. They go all in to do what they need to do. It has nothing to do with our cultural values. It has nothing to do with Emmanuel.
It is more of me portraying that particular person at that particular time. FIFTY had that vision. It is a movie that doesn’t have Nigeria only as its market. It has an international vision. We wanted to show the world that we could do a proper movie in the proper way.
If you look at the characters, everyone was able to portray the character they acted. I always tell people, what other way would you have portrayed a sex scene as original or to look as real as it is. It happens.
Lupita Nyong’o got an award because she was flogged as a slave. How else would they have flogged a slave if she wasn’t stripped naked and flogged the way slaves were treated that time. A lot of people go out to act their character.
It wasn’t anything sexual, it was just about bringing life to that character. I wanted people to know Sammy was a bad boy, a junkie. He likes older women and he is just crazy. That was what I tried to portray, so far so good. I have been getting a lot of positive responses. That is what acting is all about.
Does that mean if you get similar roles, you wouldn’t take them?
I didn’t act nude. I was portraying a character. I was having sex with someone and I was caught in the act. When you are having sex with your partner and you were caught in the act, how would you look? I am careful not to be stereotyped to a particular character. I have done that to prove my strength. I don’t want a situation whereby they will say you are looking for someone who can act nude, go and call Emmanuel. That is not my role. My role is doing my job and doing it well. It could have been the role of a Rev. Father, I will kill it like it should be. It could have been any other character.
The way I brought life to Sammy, that is the way I will bring life to any other character. If you have a nude scene and think Emmanuel will be available for it, I will definitely turn it down. That is not what I am all about.
There was an allegation that you were not the person that was naked. We learnt there was a stunt double?
I cannot give out secrets of our production. We did a movie to make you believe what you believe.
I thought the censor’s board will go after the movie?
It wasn’t provocative. If you want Nollywood to be the best, we need to stand up and do it the way it should be done. We need to master our crafts, not just as actors but as producers, directors too so that we can be taken serious. People think we don’t take our acting serious, we need to show that we are putting effort to our work. That is why FIFTY is very successful. They have seen the effort put into the production.
How true is it that FIFTY grossed N400 million?
It is very true. FIFTY is one of the movies that have been showing since December till now. How many Nigerian movies stay up in the cinemas till that time. It is grossing big time. I am happy that it is a Nigerian movie. That is why I said it is not all about me and what I did. It is about bringing life to the movie which every actor in FIFTY did. I am glad it is getting the reward.
How much were you paid to feature in the movie?
A lot of money! I was paid a lot of money. If the movie grossed N400 million, you think I wouldn’t get a lot of money to act in it. It was a lot.
What made FIFTY unique compared to other flicks you have acted in?
I have been involved in Shuga. It was another project done properly. It was done world class. It was also directed by Biyi Bandele. I love the fact that Mo’Abudu wanted to prove to the world that we could do something in Nigeria on a world class level. That is what she wanted to do. She went all out and she got it done.
A lot of people think you are a vain person. Are you?
No, I am not. A lot of people actually believe I am but I am not vain.
There is this perception that you are a gigolo, you have also acted in movies as one…
That is the problem. In Hollywood, if you need a black person for a role, you cannot cast a white person for that role. It is not about being a gigolo. Permit me to use this word, I am good looking, so I pass on for that person. If you are looking at someone who can act a gigolo, you need someone handsome with six packs, not just anybody will fit into that role but that’s not what I am.
Who really is Emmanuel?
I am a cool God fearing guy. I am passionate about what I do. I am passionate about making an impact as an individual. I am passionate about imparting my world. I want to be an inspiration to young people. I want to be a role model to many. These are the things I desire and what I want to work for.
I am a very private person. I am family oriented, I love my family. They have been my support.
Is it true that you like older women?
That is not true. I don’t like older women.
What do you like then?
I think it is never about people’s age or looks, it is about their character, the way you see others, their way of life and the positive vibes they have around them. Friendship is beyond age, relationships. It is about how you guys connect, inspire each other and how you believe in each other, somebody who is willing to go the extra mile with you. Those are the basic things.
Are you in a relationship?
So far so good, yes I am.
Tell us about her?
Like I said, I am a very private person. I wouldn’t use to talk about that.
What was your parents’ reaction about you in FIFTY?
I will tell you the truth. I really didn’t want my parents to see it. It was such a big movie that I couldn’t hide it. Normally, my parents usually come for my premiere but I didn’t tell them about FIFTY. I didn’t tell them I acted in FIFTY until friends told them to go and see the movie. I tried to talk them out of it. They couldn’t see the movie the first day, but later went again.
Funny enough, my mom understood my character but I have not talked about FIFTY with my dad till today.
Friday, 18 March 2016
Reuben Abati: Why Nigerians are Special

Reuben Abati: Why Nigerians are Special

Reuben Abati - Bella Naija


Whatever problem we may have in Nigeria at this or any other time, this country is sustained by the fact that we are indeed a very special people. We have been described as the happiest people on earth, we have also described ourselves as resilient, gifted and determined, and in one report, Nigerians are said to have the strongest shock absorber against some of the deadliest diseases in the world.




 If anyone doubted this last point, well, recall that we won the battle over Ebola virus, and polio.  The more you look at it, the more it seems as if there is something in the Nigerian DNA that defies defeat, that automatically deletes any virus that can result in system shut down, there is that X-factor in our affairs that rises when hope seems lost, and life seems tragic.  Somehow, the Nigerian spirit regenerates, recreates and reinvents itself, turns failure into possibilities, pessimism into new expectations, and tomorrow into an anchor for renewal. 


       We are at such a crossroad, right now. But in the midst of the despair, the listlessness, the anxiety, the what-happened-to-us and what-the hell-is-going-on, you can’t miss the fact that the average Nigerian has not lost his bounce. The biggest tragedies that can hobble other nations happen here and we just shrug them off.  Boko Haram alone has claimed thousands of lives. Hun hun. Herdsmen have killed men and women in their hundreds. Hun hun. More lives have been lost to vehicle accidents on our poorly made, badly maintained roads. Well, hun hun. Many fingers have been caught in the national cookie jar. Ha. What is this? Who dunnit? But, o ma se o.  hun hun.


The national leaky bucket has a thousand holes. Ha, no country can live with this? Still, hen hun hun.  We voted and there were promises of a new spirit of the age. But that spirit is yet to manifest. So? Nothing good comes easy, therefore. No miracles in the new agenda. So, ni igba yen wa n ko? So, life goes on. 

        Whatever life throws at the average Nigerian, he protests, he complains, but he accommodates it.  It is the reason why nobody will throw stones because power supply is at the worst level in years. It is the reason why workers who have not been paid for months after months will still see the same Governor who is responsible for their misery, after collecting Federal money to help them, and has refused to deliver and they will still scream: “My Excellency, sir.”  When workers go on strike, someone calls them together, says something nice, provides something nice and everything falls nicely in place. The late Chief MKO Abiola was quoted saying “eto ni gbogbo e”, that is anything in Nigeria can be arranged nicely.  


      The June 12 debacle sadly could not be arranged nicely. It cost the Chief of native wisdom and martyr of Nigerian democracy his life, but many lessons have been learnt.  And one key lesson is that in this country, the people are determined to live no matter what. They can grumble as they wish about the public space but Nigerians are not ready to give up their will to live, their right to live and their understanding of how to live.  And if you put your neck on the line on their behalf, you will be shocked that you will the subject of memes and what’s app jokes. The people laugh at martyrs and heroes because they see no reason why anyone should commit suicide, defending Nigeria, when there is so much life to be enjoyed. 


        Nigeria is probably the global headquarters of enjoyment.  The way the ordinary man has complained in recent times, about political change and the socio-cultural changes it has brought, you would think Nigerians are in serious trouble.  But that is not the case. The foreign exchange market has gone into a crazy overdrive impoverishing the whole nation. Parents whose children are schooling abroad are afraid that they may no longer be able to pay fees. The manufacturing sector is abusing the Minister of Finance-what’s-that-her-name-again? and where-did-she-learn-finance-public-policy-and-economics, but I beg, look around, more businesses are actually springing up and all those foreign investors who are supposedly monitoring the Nigerian market are actually clinging to this market.  


Why do you think MTN wants to remain in Nigeria till death do them part? Why do you think all those foreign countries want President Buhari to visit? The banks have retrenched a lot of staff but the same banks have started recruiting again. In this country, what you see is not what you get. There is problem with foreign exchange but activities at the ports have not ceased. Wait till September, you’d be shocked the number of Nigerian children heading towards Europe, North America and other parts of Africa in pursuit of expensive, forex-backed education. 


        I beg, leave matter. And if you don’t want to leave it go to the nearest fuel station where many Nigerians are queuing up for fuel with power generating sets and jerry cans. The people are going through the hardship but they are laughing at their leaders. You think you can mess us up, na lie. If you people like, sell fuel for N150, we go survive. They stay in front of that fuel station and they review Nigeria’s history and lament the choices they have made, but their spirit remains strong. That is what makes them Nigerian. Go to the vendors’ stand. The crowd of poor people who cannot afford to buy a newspaper copy, have all the same listened to the news and the only place where they can compete as pundits is that roadside corner, where sometimes one drunken idiot loses control behind the wheels and sheds human blood, wasting those who have gathered not to buy any newspaper but to debate Nigeria.



 This special crowd knows it all. You don’t want to get involved with them. They will remind you that a Ph.D holder is actually a real idiot, and that nobody needs certificates of any type to be a Nigerian, and well they add too, that if you ever worked in government, then you are a confirmed idiot, and a professional trickster. 

       Nigerians are so inventive, they find every way of beating bad news, bad experience, or anything that tries to defeat them.  Everyone says there is no money in town, they claim things have gone from bad to worse but the parties have not stooped. Go to any of the joints around Lagos, nothing has been spoiled. Isi ewu, nkwobi, asun, sawa, orisirisi, point and kill have all defied the Forex market. Yes, the price of staple commodities has risen, but that has not stopped the people from throwing lavish wedding parties. Nor has it stopped anybody from marrying three times when once is enough: our people do traditional wedding – valid, they go to the registry: valid, they rush to church- valid: rather than marry once, they do it thrice all within a week. Nor has the austerity in town stopped anybody from burying the dead as if the more money is thrown at the grave, the likeliest the possibility of the dead suddenly becoming a Lazarus of the 21st century. 


          Is there poverty in town? You answer that question based on the evidence of your eyes. What I have seen is that Nigerians are still living as if there is too much money in the country. Take a look at the garments Nigerians wear every week. We certainly don’t look like electricity is a problem or that money is in short supply. Soon it will be another Ojude oba among the Ijebus, for example.  You go and check them out. As a teacher at Ogun State University in those days, (I served later as member of the Governing Council), we used to go from one party to the other, guzzling free food and quaffing free drinks. Today, those lavish parties have not ceased. Nobody eats like that in Europe or North America. When you go to all the old joints, in Agarawu in Lagos or Tarmac, nothing has changed either. 


The music still flows, the swag is on. Elsewhere, new buildings are springing up; new cars are being “washed”, additional wives are being acquired. Leave matter, I beg. Nigeria will survive, and these same people who are complaining about change, you’d be shocked, they’d still vote for their stomachs in 2019.  
      And that is why Nigeria is one country that beats all the textbook theories. We are just something else. There is more in the social arena that defines who we are, than in the theoretical arena.  The same people who are complaining that they have not seen change are actually hoping for more. They are not ready to adjust. They are not ready to make sacrifices. If they have an opportunity to be close to government in any way, they will jump at it. The corruption that we talk about is not just in government corridors, it is in society, but the one inside society is so difficult to trap because it is amorphous and inchoate in so many respects. Invariably, the snake feeds on itself: mobius strip. 



        What we are left with is the image of the people laughing at government and themselves. Have you taken time out to check what happens on social media?  Anybody who ever ventured into governance is easy game. The people design caricatures and mock them. Nigeria produces more memes and graphics than any other country in Africa not necessarily because of the events that happen here but because of the people’s consciousness, and if I may add, private greed. In that other world, political change is ridiculed, poverty is deplored, GEJ is becoming a saint and PMB a villain, but the people are still having fun, and blaming Nigeria and the politicians.


 I tell you, the problem with Nigeria is not the politicians but the people themselves. We are very special people, but we don’t really know what we want, and because we are like that, we confuse the politicians and the nation. But for as long as we can wear those impressive attires and throw those parties and dance to old music and pay our private bills, we see no reason to care enough.  Pity is: no country can ever move ahead if the people do not care enough. For us, life goes on, no matter what. 

BY REUBEN ABATI


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An Eyewitness tells Charles Novia – “How I Saved Ibinabo’s Life on the Night of the Accident”

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Nollywood has been in a state of understandable inertia since the news came out of the blues that Ibinabo Fiberesima lost her case at the Appeal Court in Lagos and was sent straight to Prison on Friday the 11th of March 2016.

A lot of people thought that the case was done with long ago and we were surprised that it had cropped up again with the implications of a five year jail term for Ibinabo.
And the reactions thus far have not been in anyway hostile to the Court’s judgement. Not at all. The industry is enlightened enough to bow to the ruling of the law and respect it as it behoves on everyone. The collective shock expressed is because Ibinabo is a beautiful soul. She’s one of us. And one for all and all for one.

With opinions divided in the public sphere over the judgement, it has been saddening to read uninformed comments by lots of people about the case and some vitriol on the person of Ibinabo by many who don’t even know her. Of course, everyone would have an opinion and that cannot be taken from anyone. But such terms which ring of untruths that ‘she was drunk that night and coming from a night club’ or ‘she killed someone’ are absolutely untrue. It’s quite sad that we have no investigative journalists anymore or that truth these days battle with coloured lies and no one does anything about it.

In the past few days, Nollywood and Entertainment chat groups on whatsapp ( and there are many but credible ones I belong to) have been brainstorming on what next to do in this case. The law is the law and of course it is a possibility that Ibinabo would be behind bars for some time while everyone make efforts to take the next legal options to help her. But the entertainment industry has never been this united in showing sympathy and solidarity for one of us.unprecedented. And so with chat groups proferring ideas on what to do next ( with high profile celebrity visits already carried out to Kirikiri to reassure Ibinabo by over fifty celebrities on Sunday the 13th of March) someone sent a munched shot of the instagram page of the daughter of the late Doctor Giwa who was reacting to Ibinabo’s son’s public plea for prayers for his mother. The munched shot showed that the daughter was understandably bitter and pained by her father’s death but to many who read it in the chat group, it betrayed a lack of the real facts and had a one – sided narrative which accused Ibinabo of ‘being drunk from a night club outing’ and ‘running away from the scene of the accident’ after it happened. I also read the open letter of the sister of late Doctor who understandably gave an emotionally – charged one-sided narrative of what she believes happened and ended her letter by applauding the Justice system for vindicating her understandable anger towards Ibinabo for the past eleven years.

There’s a saying in Pidgin English which says ‘na talk dey bring talk’ and what happened thereafter this week is the stuff movies are made of. No pun intended. It was totally unexpected.
One of the most important personalities in Nollywood in the chat group, obviously distressed at the wrong notion about Ibinabo by the deceased daughter blurted out that ‘you know, Guys? There are facts of the case which I know and which haven’t come to light all these years. My brother was an eye witness and saw all what happened that night’

The reaction was one of stunned questions. And immediately, I made the decision to interview the eye witness to find out what he really saw and what it was that happened which the public may not have heard these years. I decided to do this as a public service responsibility first and also to put whatever the new facts are in the public domain for posterity to prove or dispel. And if these new revelations would help heal wounds and bring about a new dawn of forgiveness and understanding, then so be it.

I got the number of the eye witness from his sister in the chat room and called him. Now, let me state here that this is no fiction. This fellow is real and is willing to expose himself to the public anytime to state what he saw. I have decided not to put his surname out ( even though he says he doesn’t mind) at this point in time but that doesn’t detract from the real facts of this story.

‘Good afternoon, Mr De Gaulle. Your sister gave me your number to call you to find out what happened that night. My name is Charles Novia’ I said, when he answered, my pen and recorder ready.
‘Oh ok. Yes, she told me you would call. My name is De Gaulle ( surname protected by me) You see, I’m ready to come out to testify or say whatever happened that night of the accident because it happened in my presence. I witnessed it and saw everything. We were many who saw what happened that evening and I assumed that others might have told the world what really went down but I’m surprised to read so many untrue things about what happened at the scene of the accident that evening’ He said.

‘Please go ahead, Sir. I’m taking notes and recording’ I said

‘ Ok. I saw Ibinabo a few years ago ( about six years ago) in Port Harcourt at a restaurant called Gessy ( or Jessy?). She was with some of your colleagues and my sister was there too. I told my sister that ‘Hey! That’s that girl whom I helped at the scene of the accident years ago’. My sister was surprised and called Ibinabo to meet me. And when I told her what I’m about to tell you, she was surprised and quiet for a long time.
That evening, what happened was that the Doctor’s car was coming from the Victoria Island axis of the first Lekki Roundabout which leads into the Lekki Phase One Estate, while another SUV which was being driven by Ibinabo was coming out from the estate, if I remember correctly. I cannot tell who was speeding or what but we heard a loud crash and then I think the doctors car somersaulted while the other car driven by Ibinabo was flung a few metres to the other side.
 
‘Was it midnight or late at night?’ I asked

‘No!’ Mr De Gaulle replied with much emphasis. ‘ It was early evening. There was still the last trace of evening light. It might have been just before seven o’clock or after seven. But it wasn’t late.

So what happened was that the Doctor’s car was upside down and somehow his hand was crushed and he was trapped in the car. Immediately a few Area Boys and bystanders rushed to him to try and help him out of the crushed car. I quickly parked my car and came out to help as I rushed to the doctors car. A few other cars stopped as well.
I noticed that the other car was motionless and no one really was paying much attention to that car. What got my attention was the special number plates on the car which read ‘ DANIEL WILSON’ a popular musician in the nineties in Nigeria.

When I got to the doctor’s car, the area boys and bystanders were gathered round the car and were trying to help the man out of the car in the upturned vehicle. At that point, the man was very much alive. I swear he was alive and groaning but he was alive. His arm was crushed or underpinned by the impact of the car and I still think that it was the inexperience of the area boys and bystanders in trying to pull the man out of the car, which killed him faster.

I am sorry to say that but that is my belief because of what I saw. The people who gathered round that car may have meant well but they were also callous in responding to the emergency and were dragging at the man, trying to pull him from the crushed car.
The doctor kept crying out ( and I heard everything clearly because I saw it and was even telling the crowd to be gentle) and was shouting ‘ No! Take it easy! I’m a doctor. Don’t pull me like that. Easy!’. I heard everything.

At this time, all attention was on the doctor. And I heard someone in the crowd say that if anything happened to the man, they would make sure the occupant in the other car suffers.
Immediately I heard that, I went to the other car because I thought it was Daniel Wilson involved from the number plates. I was surprised to see a fair-skinned lady behind the wheel, unconscious and still. There was another lady in the car with her in the front seat. I think it was a young lady of about sixteen years or a teenager. That young lady was weeping and shaking.

After hearing what the guys at the other side had said about the occupant of the car, my first instinct was to get them to safety or to the hospital. I asked the young lady ‘ is there anyone you can call to take you people to the hospital? You and this woman have to leave this place now and get to a hospital’
I helped stop a taxi and helped carry the unconscious Ibinabo to the car and the taxi took them away.

Then I now returned to the other car of the late Doctor. When I got there, another set of cars full of some doctors had arrived the scene. The doctors said they were coming from some kind of meeting or event near the beach or somewhere near if I remember and that the bleeding occupant of the car was their colleague whom they had seen earlier.
By the time I got back, the car had been turned to a standing position but I believe it was too late for the injured person in that car at that point.’

‘ So you say the doctor in the car was alive when the accident happened?’ I asked.
‘ He was. There was no immediate emergency care to help him from competent medical personnel as what would obtain today and the crowd tried to help him out and he was calling out in pain. It was sad and painful. So when I saw Ibinabo a couple of years later in Port-Harcourt and told her that I was the person who removed her from the car and put her in a taxi, she was speechless and quaky. She too could have died that evening. She didn’t run away from the scene of the accident at all. I was the person who put her in a taxi to a hospital ‘

‘Why did it take you such a long time to come out to tell this story?’ I asked
‘ I have been in and out of Nigeria these past ten years. And I actually thought too that the case was done with all this while. I was surprised to hear that she was just sent to jail. Look, it was an unfortunate thing which happened. And I am ready at anytime, ANYTIME if I am called upon to testify on what I saw. It happened before my eyes. If my testimony would help put facts straight, I am ready’

I got in touch with Daniel Wison who corroborated that Ibinabo drove his SUV that night in question. ‘She’s my sister. We are from the same state and local government. It was the week of my mother’s burial and Ibinabo had come from Port-Harcourt to help me with the burial. She was wonderful and really supportive. That day, she needed the car to get to somewhere on the island and I asked her to pick any from the pool of cars in my compound. I was surprised when I got a call a couple of hours later that there was an accident. I rushed to the hospital, St Nicholas, and she was unconscious. But when she came out of it, she was delirious and traumatised. She was shaky. Look Charles, Ibinabo is a gentle soul. It was unfortunate that the accident happen but it was not intentional in anyway. And we have been begging the family of the late doctor. Who said we haven’t begged? I personally, made numerous visits to the house to see the widow and elders of the family. We attended the burial of the doctor. I was there. We begged and begged. Not because we think begging could bring the man back but just because it’s human nature to forgive. So, it’s not true that we remained aloof’ Daniel concluded.

It’s been much of a nagging battle for me to decide if I should put out this story or not. The initial hesitation was borne out of the fact that many people would misconstrue the new testimony as somewhat of a convenient revelation just to help a colleague, seeing that we are in the same industry.
But at the end of my internal consideration, a part of me decided to put it out anyway. First, to record a new chronicle of the whole sad accident which millions, including me, never knew happened. It’s better to be on the side of history which stands for true reportage of events in this case. And since Mr De Gaulle is very willing to give his account to any reporter or law enforcement agent for some measure of revision, I am prepared too to give out his number to members of the fourth estate of the realm and even the late doctor’s family to find out more from the fellow himself.

Finally, I have always maintained that we all are bound by the laws of our society. Ibinabo is serving a sentence passed by a law court and we respect that. We sympathise with her and as an industry would share the comfort between her and the family of the late Doctor.
But the final closure of this matter, beyond the law and prison sentence she would serve, rests on the family of the late Dr Giwa really. Now that there is a final vindication, as gleamed from the letter by the late doctor’s sister, what happens after Ibinabo serves her sentence? Would the family carry the hurt till the end of time?

A platform for reconciliation and forgiveness has to be set in motion. This is not just about the law now but about healing. Healing. Healing for all parties.



SOURCE: CharlesNoviaDaily.com;
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